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Spiritual Condition – Transforming the Hard Heart

  • Writer: facethyfear
    facethyfear
  • Feb 3
  • 3 min read

“The Lord turned the flint into a fountain of waters.” —Psalm 114:8

Introduction: Why Spirituality Matters in Recovery

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I’ve learned that staying spiritually connected is what keeps me sober. No matter how much progress I make, if I neglect my spiritual condition, I can feel myself slipping. It’s easy to get caught up in the external—work, relationships, responsibilities—but if my soul isn’t right, everything else starts to unravel.


Recently, I decided to create a dedicated space on FaceThyFear for spirituality, a place where I can share what keeps me grounded and remind others that no one is ever too far gone. This section will be about faith, transformation, and the deeper meaning behind recovery. To start it off, I want to share something that was sent to me today by someone I deeply respect—someone who had a huge influence on me when I was first getting sober.


I met Mr. 7 two years ago when he was five years sober, and today, he is seven years sober. I’ve always respected this man. In rehab, I watched him help so many men, pouring into others without hesitation. He showed me what real recovery looks like—not just staying sober, but living with purpose, humility, and strength. He sent me motivational and spiritual messages every day, and his wisdom was a guiding light when I needed it most.


Today, I want to share one of those messages because I believe it speaks to the heart of recovery, transformation, and the power of God’s grace.

Transforming the Hard Heart


“What a violent conjunction, the flint becoming the birthplace of a spring! And yet this is happening every day. Men who are as ‘hard as flint,’ whose hearts are ‘like the nether millstone,’ become springs of gentleness and fountains of exquisite compassion. Beautiful graces, like lovely ferns, grow in the home of severities, and transform the grim, stern soul into a garden of fragrant friendships.”


This passage speaks volumes. So many of us, before recovery, walked through life hardened—defensive, bitter, cold, or even numb. Addiction can turn a heart to stone, making it feel like nothing will ever break through. But grace changes everything.


“No one is ‘too far gone.’ No hardness is beyond the love and pity of God. The well of eternal life can gush forth even in a desert waste, and ‘where sin abounds grace doth much more abound.’ Let us bring our hardness to the Lord. Let us see what He can make of our flint. When we are dry and ‘feelingless,’ and desire is dead, let us bring this Sahara to the great Restorer, and ‘the desert shall rejoice and blossom like the rose.’”

Reflection: From Darkness to Light


This is what happened in my own life. My heart was hardened by addiction, pain, and self-destruction. I thought I was too far gone. But grace—real, undeniable grace—found me in my lowest moments. It broke through my resistance, softened my heart, and began to transform me.


Recovery isn’t just about stopping a behavior; it’s about allowing yourself to be reshaped. The idea of turning flint into a fountain is so powerful because it means that even the hardest, driest places in our souls can be made new. It’s not too late. It’s never too late.


To anyone who feels like they’ve been lost for too long, like their heart has turned to stone—there is hope. There is a way back. You don’t have to have all the answers. Just bring what you have, even if it’s just broken pieces, and let grace do the rest.

Closing Thoughts: Letting Grace Work


This message from Mr. 7 reminded me of why I stay spiritually connected. When I drift away from faith, I start feeling empty again. When I lean into God, I see life differently. That’s why I’m making this new section for FaceThyFear—to share these moments, these reminders, and keep the focus on what truly matters.


If you’re reading this and you’re struggling, just know you’re not alone. The hardest heart can become a fountain. The driest desert can bloom. Stay open. Keep fighting. Let grace work.


FaceThyFear: From Darkness to Light.

What’s Next?


This is just the beginning. If you’d like to see more faith-based content on FaceThyFear, drop a comment, send me a message, or even share something that’s helped you in your journey. Let’s build this together.


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