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(The Truth About Recovery, Growth, and Moving Forward) Healing isnt what I thought it would be.

  • Writer: facethyfear
    facethyfear
  • Jan 30, 2025
  • 2 min read

What No One Tells You About Healing…


When I first started my journey, I imagined some kind of finish line, a moment where everything would feel right, where the pain would be gone, and Id finally be free. But thats not how healing works. No one told me that healing isnt a straight path. Its messy, painful, and sometimes, it even feels like you’re breaking before you’re whole again.


What no one tells you is that healing can feel just as lonely as the pain you’re re trying to escape.


I remember the first time I sat in silence without a drink, without a distraction, just me and my thoughts. It was terrifying. When you have spent so much time numbing yourself, feeling everything all at once can be overwhelming. No one told me that healing would mean facing emotions I had buried so deep that I forgot they were there.


Healing is not instant. It’s s a slow, uphill battle.


There were days when I felt like I was making progress, where I could breathe, where I felt light for the first time in years. Then there were days when I woke up and felt like I was right back where I started. The bad days made me question if I was even healing at all. No one told me that progress doesn’t always feel like progress.


But here’s what Ive learned: just because it hurts doesn’t mean you're not healing.


Pain is part of the process. The uncomfortable moments, the loneliness, the self-doubt they don’t mean you’re failing. They mean you’re changing. Every time you choose to keep going even when it feels impossible you're re healing.


No one told me how much strength it takes to heal.


But I see it now. It’s not in the easy moments; its in the struggle. It’s in the days when you want to give up, but you dont. Its in the moments when you sit with your emotions instead of running from them. Its in every single choice you make to fight for yourself.


If you’re re in that place right now where healing feels like breaking please keep going. You are not alone. You are not beyond saving. You are healing, even when it doesnt feel like it.


And I promise you it gets better.


Have you ever felt this way? Drop a comment, share your thoughts, or message us. Lets talk about the parts of healing no one talks about. You are not alone.


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